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I Can’t Get Over Being Told to ‘Get Over It’

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Source Summary

It’s amazing what’s expected of us as trans people. We’re supposed to watch our trans sisters succumb to unspeakable brutality on a constant basis. We’re supposed to ignore the fact that we can be legally fired in thirty-eight states simply because we’re trans. We’re supposed to “understand” when we are denied admittance to public places or refused public restroom access based on our appearance or our paperwork. And we’re supposed to “get over it” when someone uses offensive language to refer to us because they’re lashing out in pain or anger and it’s not really directed at us at all. When people use the word “tranny” as a slur or in hostility, we’re supposed to “get a sense of humor.” (We all have one, actually – just give us something to laugh at besides the increasing homelessness, unemployment, and body count in our community.) When people use phrases such as

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Interpretive context

Why this article may matter

Community significance

“I Can’t Get Over Being Told to ‘Get Over It’” may matter to community readers because it preserves a first-person or testimonial account connected to community and organizing, while also engaging transgender identity and history. Such accounts can document how an issue was understood and experienced from within the period or community being discussed.

Historical significance

As a publication record from 2011 at Transadvocate.com, “I Can’t Get Over Being Told to ‘Get Over It’” provides dated evidence of how community and organizing was being argued in relation to transgender identity and history. Comparing it with earlier and later records can reveal changes in vocabulary, evidence, and emphasis.

Policy significance

The article’s strongest policy connection is public accommodations and facilities and housing and social services. It links that institutional frame to community and organizing and transgender identity and history, making it potentially useful for tracing how an argument moves from description or history into law, regulation, administration, or public practice.

Content analysis

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Themes

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Community and organizingTheme family: Identity, culture, and community
100%
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Transgender identity and historyTheme family: Identity, culture, and community
86%
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Violence, safety, and dehumanizationTheme family: Power, ideology, and social conflict
43%
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Media, rhetoric, and discourseTheme family: Knowledge, history, and communication
29%
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Law and civil rightsTheme family: Institutions, law, and public life
21%

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Interpretive analysis
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Policy framing

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Public accommodations and facilities
100%
2
Housing and social services
100%

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Granular comparative context

How “Community and organizing” appears across the Collective corpus

This article appeared 2 year(s) before the theme reached its highest annual presence in the registered corpus in 2013.

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mkailey

39 publications · 33 inbound sources/citations